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Yesterday was my breaking point in life. Today I officially withdrew from school, taking a 2 yr planned educational leave. I can't keep going the way I've been going. And although some might see it as taking the easy way out, it was far harder for me to make that choice than to continue to live life the way it has been. So now I'm really just in a state of unknown & will be trying to figure out my next move over the next couple of days (as well as preparing myself for the shit storm to come when I break the new to my mother).
So today (& for last night) I'm not updating anything in for food & exercise. I had to drop my elliptical challenge as I no longer have access to the gym. So that's pretty much what's going on right now.
I'm not giving up, even if some might get a sense of that. Quite the opposite. For the first time in my life I'm going to do what is necessary to take care of myself first & foremost, before everyone else. I need to get right w/ me. So just depending on the next few days I may or may not be scarce. We shall see. I hope everyone is doing well & having great success!! ; )
Janisha
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Dear Janisha,
By all means, do what you have to do to survive and be happy. Make your priorities about your needs and expectations. I wish you the absolute very best. Please keep in touch and let us know how you're doing.
Jen
26 Mrz 10 vom Mitglied: jenju
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Sometimes you have to do a little soul searching and "get right" with yourself. I know I have been doing some of that myself lately.
26 Mrz 10 vom Mitglied: mccavewl
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Do what you need to do... to get right. Its your life and your destiny. Only you control your future. I wish you the best of luck in all you do.
26 Mrz 10 vom Mitglied: angel_face0145
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It takes a lot of courage to to what you did, so as for it being an easy way out I don't think so! Life is what you make it, and only U can make U happy. Best of luck, and I know it's overwhelming right now, but the the fact that you knew this is what you had to do leads me to believe that you will do what you need to succeed. Stay strong!
26 Mrz 10 vom Mitglied: Jenn74
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Stress is harmful to the body and hard on life changes. It's really difficult to do the things you need to do in any arena of life if you are carrying a heavy stress load in one or more areas... and school is a heavy load, diets can be stressful, and that's just what I know of.
In this time that you aren't in school, do what you can to squirrel away money to pay for educational expenses when you go back. It is likely to help in the long run. And for now? Just take a deep breath and rest a bit while you sort out what to do. You're going to be fine.
26 Mrz 10 vom Mitglied: HuMJah
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Don't be too stressed, change is always scary but can pan out for the best. Good luck to you!
26 Mrz 10 vom Mitglied: SturgeonQueen
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I dropped out of college once in a very stressful time and later on I went back and then on through graduate school. You have to do what is best for you and sometimes school isn't it - you will get through this hard time. I'm sure your Mom only wants you to be happy...she will get over any temporary upset. Stay in touch. You don't have to give up your efforts to exercise and lose weight just because you dropped out of school. What ever happens remember you deserve the very best in life.
27 Mrz 10 vom Mitglied: Multiplicity1
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